I got in trouble with my daughter a few weeks back. We were out to dinner and my cell phone kept
vibrating in my pocket. It finally got
the best of me so I checked a couple of times to see if I had a text or phone
call. Okay, I admit that I am tied to my
mobile device. I keep my calendar on it
and use it to store a lot of information.
Since I work part-time for a chaplaincy service, it is the way my
hospitals reach me in an emergency. Yes,I also use it to get news and for social media.
I also know it is rude to use the phone during meal times… but sometimes
curiosity gets the best of me.
We tend to complain about teens and young adults and the
way that they seemed to be tied to their mobile devices, but older adults might
be just as bad. A recent Pew Research
poll indicates that 65% of American adults use social networking sites. That is up 7% since Pew Research first
started tracking media usage in 2005.
While use among teens and young adults has remained steady, the number
of older adults using mobile devices for social media has climbed
dramatically. Currently, 35% of those 65
and older report using social media, compared to 2% in 2005.
I recently read a study that seems to indicate that teens
still value face to face communication. The
research comes from YouGov. It found
that more than seven in ten teen mobile device users said they at least somewhat prefer
to hanging out with friends to chatting online.
The reality is most teens still enjoy hanging out with their friends the
traditional way.
Before we start criticizing teens and young adults for
being tied to their mobile devices, take a look at our own habits. Maybe we need to be better role models when
it comes to our own use of our cell phones.