I spent eleven years of the staff at Lutheran High School
of Dallas (now called Dallas Lutheran School) as a counselor. I often refer to those as my best years in
ministry. I had been in church youth
ministry for twenty-seven years. In
parish youth ministry kids drift into your life a couple times a week. To be honest, most of my time was spent
planning, rather than hanging with kids.
In a school environment I was with kids eight hours or more five days a
week. I got to relate to students as a
counselor, teacher, coach and even friend.
May was always my favorite month of the school
year. Sure, there was anticipation of
the end of the school year and the summer break, but there was also so much to
celebrate. I enjoyed walking along-side
the seniors as they closed out their high school education and anticipated the
future. Many of them took on a new level
of maturity. I never much of a prom and party guy, I was more into personal
celebrations. I knew the students who
had struggled academically and were now going to be able to celebrate their
accomplishments. I enjoyed worshiping at the baccalaureate service but probably even more the fellowship
that followed. I especially valued the
commencement experience and as we took time to celebrate each student.
I am grieving from afar this particular commencement
season. The Class of 2020 is
experiencing graduation in a way life no other.
The pandemic means no prom, no senior parties and honors convocation. It there is a commencement
ceremony it is either going to be delayed or look very different. I am left wondering how you can have a
graduation celebration without hugs.
I would ask that you take time to recognize the
graduating seniors in your life. That
will be easy for those who are part of your family, children and grandchildren,
but I would ask you to think about the young people you know through your
church and neighborhood. A card and
personal note probably will have more meaning now than ever. Most of all lift them up in prayers. These seniors are going to need patience and
courage like no class before. They are
graduating into a world full of unknowns.
There are questions about what the college experience will look like in
the future. There might even be economic
unknowns. Family financial situations
might have changed to the point that college has to be delayed. The economic environment will also be
impacted if they are looking for a job.
With our encouragement, the Class of 2020 will be able to use this experience to change the world like not other. After all, they have already survived a pandemic.
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