College Students and Their Faith

I have listened to a number of parents express concern about the worship habits and faith of their college age children. This is nothing new. I recall my own college days. I went to a school where a majority of the students were preparing for some kind of full-time ministry but Sunday church attendance was usually less than 50%. That didn't mean religion wasn't a hot topic. I remember many late-night discussion. We took many classes on theology but I probably got more out of the dorm room debates. `

Parents need to remember that one's faith is always a work in progress. People move through faith stages, just like they do cognitive and social stages. Most teenagers are in the Synthetic-Conventional Stage. For the most part they have inherited the faith of their parents. They are usually the products of some kind of religious instruction that has enlightened them in the basic tenets of that faith tradition. Knowledge does not equal faith, however. During the young adult years most people develop an Individual-Reflective Faith. They often step away from the religious traditions of their childhood. In the process they might consider, and even try other faith perspectives. Yes, there is always the risk that they will lose their faith. Scary, you bet!

So, what is a Christian parent to do?

Be a spiritual sojourner yourself. It's not enough just to attend worship on a regular basis. People, especially your kids, should see you in God's Word regularly. Bible study, both within a group and personal setting are both vital. You need to be honest about your own spiritual struggles. The strongest witness you can give your kids is by allowing them to see how you handle crisis. If you remain strong in your faith during the tough times, you are providing them with an excellent model.

At all times, faith is a very personal thing.