For Such a Time as This

 

For many years I was posting weekly on Blogspot.  Unlike my weekly Passing the Torch Newsletter in which I try to unbiasedly report cultural trends and possible implications for the church, my blog provided an opportunity for me to comment and give my opinion on issues of the day.  Over the last couple of weeks God has put on my heart the need to resurrect my regular use of Blogspot.  I sense we are living in unsettling times.  This election year has the potential to be especially contentious.  Like many Americans, I am troubled by this.  While I am not fearful for the future of our country, God is still in charge, I am concerned about the long-term impact of this election year.  I am concerned over the kind of world my grandchildren will grow up in. 

I have always considered myself to be a conservative, but tend to vote more based on character than political party.  One of the disturbing things that I have observed over the last decade is louder rhetoric and a higher degree of contention. In the process, lines have been drawn in the sand and there is little room for compromise. Quite simply, we have lost our ability to listen to each other and to respect those who hold alternative opinions.  As a result, we have people on different sides of an issue standing on opposite sides of the street, holding signs, and shouting at each other.  The only ones standing in the middle are police officers who are there to keep the two sides apart.

One pet peeve of mine has always been that while we have classes on public speaking, we never offer instruction on public listening.  We teach students how to communicate their opinion on a topic, but never instruct them how to listen and discern what someone on the other side is saying.  More importantly, why they hold that opinion.   There can be no discussion and compromise unless we seek to understand each other.

I recently read David Brooks’ new book, How to Know a Person; The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen.  The author addresses this issue in the chapter The Epidemic of Blindness.  He states,

“We live in an environment in which political animosities, technical dehumanization, and social breakdown undermine connection, strain friendships, erase intimacy and foster distrust.  We are living in the middle of some sort of vast emotional, relational and spiritual crisis.  It is as if people across society have lost the ability to see and understand one another, thus producing a culture that can be brutalizing and isolating.”

(How to Know a Person, page 97)

 

The unfortunate reality, from my perspective, is that Christians have become part of the problem, rather than contributing to the solution.  In the process, we have become known more for what we are against, than for what we should be stand for.  Our strong rhetoric on the issues, has drowned out the message of grace, love, and mercy we are called to represent.  This has deeply harmed our ability to reach younger generations.

My prayer is that we might turn down our voices and learn to listen to each other.  We need less emphasis on what we think and more on what others are thinking and feeling and why they hold such strong opinions.

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the sons of God.”

Matthew 5:9