There is no doubt that we live in the age of social networking. Facebook, My Space and Twitter are part of our worlds. When you add in the amount of texting that we do as American, it's easy to assume that face-to-face conversation in on the decline. According to a new book, that is not the case.
The appropriate title is The Face-to-Face Book. The authors, Ed Keller and Brad Fay, are principals in a market research and consulting firm. Over the last six years they have collected data on over 2 million conversations. One surprising finding is that 75% of our conversations still happen face-to-face. Even more significant is that people tend to view such conversations as more positive and satisfying. People are perceived as being more credible when they communicate face-to-face, as opposed to on-line.
If you have any doubt that this is the case, visit a fast food restuarant or coffee shop where teens are present. You will quickly conclude that teens still enjoy hanging out together and talking to each other.
The question now becomes: what can we as parents be doing to encourage face-to-face conversation. As with other behavior, the best way is to model it. Talk about the value of personal conversation and identify individuals in your life who you enjoy visiting with on a regular basis. Build in time for personal conversation as a family. Family meals at home or at a restuarant provide such opportunities. Stipulate that texting is not allow during such times. Establishing no texting zone. Designate certain rooms in the house as no texting areas, and don't allow texting in the car. Limit the social network conversation between you and family members. Insist that information, comments and the expression of opinions between family members be expressed face-to-face.
Social networking is a great way to stay in touch with those that we do not see on a regular basis, example old friends or relatives that live far away. Social networking should never be a replacement for good old conversation.
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