Tomorrow is the first day of April. We're are heading into an exciting season for many families. I am referring to the rights of passage that go with this time of year, particularly graduations. Such events can provide parents with a variety of contrasting emotions. This year, I can again identify. Our daughter, Katie, is completing her masters program and graduating from Dallas Baptist University.
It's important for all of us to keep things in perspective. Each right of passage is another step and another opportunity. It's easy to get caught up in the past. Rights of passage also mean change. Change always brings stress with it. Change also means growth and that is where the focus needs to be. I know from experience that there is no great joy than watching your kids grow up and be successful on their own.
When it comes to rights of passage the focus needs to be on them, and not on us. Hopefully they have plans and dreams. In that case they are excited. Their focus is on what is ahead. We need to do the same. It is our responsibility to listen and then support them in reaching for their goals. Every individual deserves the right to pursue their own dream. If their future is cloudy, we need to offer our support in helping them clarify their plans.
Secondly, we need to savor the moment. Rights of passage tend to be "Kodak Moments." We want to freeze the picture and just enjoy the experience. Relax and enjoy these days for what they are.
Lastly, continue to pray for your kids. Pray passionately that God will bless their dreams and visions. Pray that they will have the opportunity to use the special gifts God has given them. Pray for their safety as well but pray for their faith development as well. If they continue to walk with the Lord, God will bless them.
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