Tolerance Versus Respect

Tolerance is a word that is often used to describe our contemporary society. I thought I knew what it meant but I decided to look up the word in my dictionary. Definition: Tolerance is a "fair, objective, and permissive attitude toward those whose opinions, practices, race, religion or nationality differ from our own." Synonyms include: patience, forbearance, and open-mindedness.

In some ways tolerance is a valuable trait. It allows us to function in multiple settings, among a variety of people. If we work for a boss whose value system or lifestyle, is very different from our own, being tolerant allows us to work with them.

There is a reason for focusing on tolerance at this time. Those who study trends note that those under the age of thirty practice tolerance at a higher degree than previous generations. The disturbing factor in this trend is the way tolerance is impacting their Christian faith. When it comes to matters of faith I would prefer the word 'respect" over the word "tolerance." I respect those who hold different belief systems, but it's hard for me to be open-minded. As a Christian, I believe that Jesus is the only hope of mankind. He died for the sins of the whole world, and rose again that we all might have eternal life. That is not up for negotiation.

An unfortunate outcome to tolerance as it's practiced by young folks is they not only say, "I will let you believe what you believe as long as it doesn't effect me," but begin to incorporate other belief systems into their own concept of faith. Some Christians also buy into the concept that all religions worship the same God, they just take different paths or hold different traditions.

When imparting faith to teens, it's important that we help them view Jesus as their only hope for salvation and eternal life. Secondly, we need to teach them to respect those who hold different belief systems. Thirdly, the best way to share the Good News of Jesus is to be be models of Christ. When we are people of grace and hope we are sending a strong message. Our actions toward those who are outside the Christian faith will always speak louder than words. We must be people of respect, not tolerance.