The high school in Coppell, Texas experienced the death of two students last week. One of those deaths received a lot of press coverage, but the other was barely mentioned. A star football player drowned while cliff-jumping with some friends. The other student was found dead of a self-inflicted gun shot wound in a local park. The football player was honored by both teams during last Friday nights game. The media even covered his funeral. I have not even seen an obituary for the other young man. I guess I should not be surprised. Teen suicide is the killer we don't like to think about.
I took suicide seriously during my years as a high school counselor. At the first mention of a threat to do harm to one's self, I got parents involved. My colleagues were also on high alert to watch for the warning signs. I talked with students about the issue and made sure they knew what to look for. Often the intervention took place because a peer alerted me. Macabre drawing and self-mutilation were warning signs. Even if the student denied it, or blew it off as "I was just joking around," We took it seriously.
What are the warning signs? Here a couple of things to look for:
A disinterest in previously favorite activities: If a student is involved in an extra-curricular activity and suddenly gives it up, that could be an indicator.
Withdrawal from friends and family: Young people who are contemplating suicide will often withdraw. If they show no interest in hanging out with friends and start spending extended time alone, it's time to ask questions.
Neglecting personal appearance and hygiene: Most teens are very conscious of their appearance. If that changes it could be an indication that they are giving up on life.
Change in Sleep Patterns: If they tend to sleep during the day and stay up at night, it's time to check things out. Get them to their doctor and find out what's going on.
Substance Abuse: Drugs and alcohol can lead to a downward spiral.
For more information I would recommend checking out the following website: http://www.teensuicide.us/articles2.html
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